When is the RSVP deadline?
We ask that you RSVP through this website by 9/12/25.
Where are the ceremony and the reception taking place?
Both the ceremony and the reception will take place at Fernbrook Farms. The ceremony will be located in the Sundial Garden. The reception will be located at the Hoop House. There will be staff and signs guiding you in the right direction!
What time should I arrive?
The ceremony will begin at 4:30 PM. We ask that you arrive 20-30 minutes earlier so that you have enough time to walk over to the Sundial Garden and find your seat. There will be refreshments provided in the Sundial Garden.
What should I wear? Is there a dress code?
The dress code for our wedding is semi-formal/cocktail attire!
The majority of the time, we will be either outdoors or in a covered area open to the outdoors. It may be pretty chilly once the sun goes down. We'll also be walking around on grass nearly the entire evening. We recommend avoiding very high heels!
Also, please feel free to wear whatever colors you'd like! But here is the color scheme for our wedding if you want to have some fun with it: Apple green, gold, purple, pink, brown, and a coral orange. :)
Will the ceremony and reception be indoors or outdoors?
The ceremony will be located outdoors, in a shaded area. The reception will be partly outdoors and partly inside the Hoop House, which is open to the outdoors.
Do you have a hotel block for guests? Where do you recommend I stay?
We do not have a hotel block, but we have provided some hotel recommendations. Please see our wedding website section titled "Travel" for more information.
Are there other wedding events I can attend?
Yes! We will be having a casual get-together for everyone on Sunday, October 12th, located at our new house. Please see the section of our website titled "Post- Wedding Party!" for more information.
Are the ceremony and reception location wheelchair accessible?
Yes, both the ceremony and reception are wheelchair accessible. It's a little bit of a walk to get from the parking lot over to the ceremony, and then back to the reception. For this reason, there will also be a staffed golf cart available to transport back and forth anyone who may need assistance.
Will there be any vegan, vegetarian, gluten-free or special diet options?
Yes! Dinner will be served family style, so guests with special dietary needs will receive their own separate plated meal. Please note any dietary restrictions or allergies in your RSVP response.
Where are you registered?
Our only registry is our fundraising Gofundme page for The Joan Dancy & PALS (People with ALS) Foundation in honor of Lee's father, Ray. It can be found under the "In Lieu of Gifts" section of our website. We are so thankful you will be joining us for this celebration, and ask that any gifts be directed towards our fundraiser.
Is it okay to take pictures with our phones and cameras during the ceremony?
We kindly ask that you refrain from using phones, cameras, and other devices during the ceremony. Our photographer has got it covered!
Will names be changing?
Nope! We'll both be keeping our given names.